Children

At Eastern Suburbs Memorial Park, we are dedicated to helping you choose the best way to remember your child’s young life and giving you a special place to express your love.

Our unique children’s gardens, Garden of Innocence, Garden of Loving Memories and Dragonfly Garden, have been created to give comfort and provide a sense of serenity and loving warmth. Colourful blooms and animals greet visitors. The joyous spirit of childhood and youth is preserved forever.

Aidan's Legacy

Aidan’s Legacy is a program which ensures the proceeds of a unique recycling initiative are directed to the families of children lost pre-term, stillborn or up to and including 17 years of age. Aidan’s Legacy provides for the cost of cremation and associated chapel services, or receive a subsidy towards the cost of a burial. This legacy of love assist family’s at the most difficult time.

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Pregnancy & Infant Loss

October 15 is a special day for remembering lives taken too soon. October 15 is officially recognised in New South Wales as the date for the Annual Pregnancy & Infant Loss Remembrance Day. Each year, on this day, a moving candlelight service is held in the Garden of Innocence. This ceremony offers a chance for grief to be shared and a burden to be unloaded in a reflective atmosphere.

Eastern Suburbs Memorial Park, sister cemetery, Woronora Memorial Park, as well as numerous other cemeteries in Australia, participate in this annual service. A Service supporting the Infant Loss Remembrance Day that pays tribute to those of us that have been touched by such tragic loss.

We are grateful for the many community based organisations which support this very special event - SANDS, Stillbirth Foundation Australia, SIDS and Kids, Bears for Hope, Pillars of Strength, The Compassionate Friends NSW Inc., HeartKids and Running for Premature Babies.

Landon’s Legacy Memorial

During the 2016 Pregnancy & Infant Loss Remembrance Day Ceremony, which falls on the 15th October each year, The Hon. Kristina Keneally, former Premier of NSW and Patron of the Stillbirth Foundation addressed guests and with Landon’s parents, unveiled a sculpture, donated by Arrow Bronze Foundry in remembrance of Landon and in support of the Stillbirth Foundation Australia.

The sculpture is of a baby nurtured within loving hands, representing a little boy, Landon Maxx Baggett. On the 5th May 2015, Landon was born. While otherwise a healthy little boy, he was born without breathe. He was stillborn. Landon was 1 of 6 babies born without breath in Australia on that day. Landon bequeathed a Legacy. While we cannot teach Landon about the world, together we can teach the world about him. Landon has a message. Every 4 hours, a baby is stillborn in Australia. Almost 2,200 babies every year. There has been no decrease in numbers, despite medical advances over the past 20 years. Up to 40% of parents never receive answers as to, “why?” Together we, us, you, our community, together…. we will make a difference.

Graham Boyd, CEO of the Southern Metropolitan Cemeteries Trust and Victoria Bowring, CEO of the Stillbirth Foundation Australia appeared on the ABC weekend News Channel 24 on the morning of Pregnancy & Infant Loss Remembrance Day 2016.

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Baby Lily Grace National Awareness Day

29th April each year

On 30th November 2014, the body of an unknown child was found at Maroubra Beach, Sydney NSW. Baby Lily Grace, as named was laid to rest on Wednesday 29th April 2015 in the Garden of Innocence following a chapel service at Eastern Suburbs Memorial Park, Military Road Matraville which is a part of the Southern Metropolitan Cemeteries Trust (SMCT) in NSW.

It is with the communities love and hope that a special memorial was built to give such children dignity and a special resting place which becomes their home for eternity. Eastern Suburbs Memorial Park offer the community a place of prayer, a place to reflect, a place to focus on a life that could have been. A peaceful place of tranquillity and remembrance.

The 29th of April marks “Baby Lily Grace Awareness Day”, where a ceremony, partnered with Joseph Medcalf Funeral Services, is held in the Garden of Innocence at Eastern Suburbs Memorial Park.

The service honours and remembers all children of our Nation who have passed without the community knowing family heritage.

The Honourable Kristina Keneally, former Premier of New South Wales and Patron for the Stillbirth Foundation Australia, presented and lead a Memorial Walk from the South Chapel to the Garden of Innocence at Eastern Suburbs Memorial Park at the 2016 ceremony.

The first service occurred pre-dawn (5:00am start) on Friday 29th April 2016, when symbolically many say that, the night is the darkest just before dawn. The ceremony began with the lighting of pink candles, extinguishing them as the sun rose.

The meaning of candles lit in the darkest hour is that there is hope even in the darkest of circumstances. By extinguishing our candles when the sun rises we recognise that a brighter light provides a dawning hope that lights up everything in its path. The sunlight provides warming, nourishing, light, revealing and transforming all upon which it falls, and it cannot be stopped. The dawn provides symbolic spiritual Hope for such children.

A pink and black ribbon marks “Baby Lily Grace Awareness Day” and on the 29thof April each year is worn ‘In Memory’ of Baby Lily Grace. Pink is the colour of compassion, nurture and love. Pink is also a sign of hope. The colour represents the sweetness and innocence of the child in all of us, whilst black symbolises the community’s bereavement for Lily Grace and all other unknown children.

The annual ceremony forms the nucleus of something very special for all time for these precious children. It is important to hold such a significant day to help raise awareness of the help that support services may provide families and that options do exist, that there is a better way.

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Memorials

  • Centenary Park

    Centenary
    Park

    A truly magical spot where the outside world and its cares seem very far away.

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  • The Glade

    The
    Glade

    A serene and secluded place among curving paths, palms and sculpted cypress bushes.

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  • Rose Garden

    Rose
    Garden

    One of the greatest symbols of love and remembrance, magnificent roses are everywhere.

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  • Pond of Tranquility

    Pond of
    Tranquility

    The sand-coloured columns, fountain and trellised walk set the scene for a gracious ambiance.

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  • Children's Areas

    Children's
    Areas

    Our unique children’s areas have been created to give comfort, a sense of serenity and loving warmth.

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  • Gazebo Gardens

    Gazebo
    Gardens

    Named for the quaint ornamental garden shelter, amid a charming Victorian-style garden.

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  • Monumental Lawn

    Monumental
    Lawn

    Elegant and symbolic, our Park offers the perfect place to erect your special monument.

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  • Full Monumental

    Full
    Monumental

    A lasting memorial to commemorate your family down the generations.

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  • General Lawn

    General
    Lawn

    Remember your loved one among peaceful, well-tended lawns.

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  • First Fleeters Memorial

    First Fleeters
    Memorial

    Unique Memorials of early pioneers.

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Garden of Innocence
Childrens Garden
Woronora Memorial Park
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SMCT - Southern Metropolitan Cemeteries Trust